Monday, October 28, 2013


Why is it so important to date not to just hang out?  It is important because when we have a date that is planned, paid for, and paired off.  These are things that are showing us how a person really is going to preside, provide, and protect us especially if you are a girl.  For the men it shows how she will nurture the family.  The real question is how would a date show us that and not hanging out? 

Many people will say I am with him or her every night I see him and know him better than anybody else does.  The thing is I have had experience with this when I just hang out with a guy and if I ever mentioned that he should go out on a date he would say well kind of have and if he does take me out I see a whole new side he will have me pay for myself he is not a gentleman and he kind of still does whatever he wants to do.  Now I have gone out with guys that have planned in advance, pay for it, and we are paired off.  When they can show you that they can be with just you and care for your needs for even one night they are showing that they are not afraid to commit. Even with them I see a different side then when I am just hanging out.  Like my professor has said many times “The traditions that you start in your dating are going to continue through your marriage and are not likely to change a lot.

Why is it so important to date not to just hang out?  It is important because when we have a date that is planned, paid for, and paired off.  These are things that are showing us how a person really is going to preside, provide, and protect us especially if you are a girl.  For the men it shows how she will nurture the family.  The real question is how would a date show us that and not hanging out? 

Many people will say I am with him or her every night I see him and know him better than anybody else does.  The thing is I have had experience with this when I just hang out with a guy and if I ever mentioned that he should go out on a date he would say well kind of have and if he does take me out I see a whole new side he will have me pay for myself he is not a gentleman and he kind of still does whatever he wants to do.  Now I have gone out with guys that have planned in advance, pay for it, and we are paired off.  When they can show you that they can be with just you and care for your needs for even one night they are showing that they are not afraid to commit. Even with them I see a different side then when I am just hanging out.  Like my professor has said many times “The traditions that you start in your dating are going to continue through your marriage and are not likely to change a lot.

Why is it so important to date not to just hang out?  It is important because when we have a date that is planned, paid for, and paired off.  These are things that are showing us how a person really is going to preside, provide, and protect us especially if you are a girl.  For the men it shows how she will nurture the family.  The real question is how would a date show us that and not hanging out? 

Many people will say I am with him or her every night I see him and know him better than anybody else does.  The thing is I have had experience with this when I just hang out with a guy and if I ever mentioned that he should go out on a date he would say well kind of have and if he does take me out I see a whole new side he will have me pay for myself he is not a gentleman and he kind of still does whatever he wants to do.  Now I have gone out with guys that have planned in advance, pay for it, and we are paired off.  When they can show you that they can be with just you and care for your needs for even one night they are showing that they are not afraid to commit. Even with them I see a different side then when I am just hanging out.  Like my professor has said many times “The traditions that you start in your dating are going to continue through your marriage and are not likely to change a lot.

Friday, October 25, 2013


Are gender roles really important and are many of our attributes natural or are they learned? It is very interesting to see how much of our personality starts to come to the surface at such a young age.  I have two older brothers and then there is me. I am the youngest and the only girl.  While I was growing up my parents would always mention that it was so different raising a girl after having the two boys.  They said we have the same way of raising all the kids but you respond differently.  They mentioned this ever since I was a baby. I would play differently with toys and I automatically always want the girly pink toys instead of action figures.  Could it really be that we are automatically different when we are born?

I believe that we are born differently for a reason, and that we have separate and divine roles.  Without each of us having our individual and divine roles we would be at a loss.  These individual roles that we are born with are there for a reason.  When we join in marriage between a man and a woman we bring our strengths together.  If we really thing about it most of our strengths over power and help with our spouses weaknesses.  For example most women are very big worriers and most men are very relaxed about things together we teach each other how to meet in the middle of the two.  Together we create a way of becoming complete and closer to perfect.