Are gender roles really important and are many of our attributes natural or are they learned? It is very interesting to see how much of our personality starts to come to the surface at such a young age.  I have two older brothers and then there is me. I am the youngest and the only girl.  While I was growing up my parents would always mention that it was so different raising a girl after having the two boys.  They said we have the same way of raising all the kids but you respond differently.  They mentioned this ever since I was a baby. I would play differently with toys and I automatically always want the girly pink toys instead of action figures.  Could it really be that we are automatically different when we are born?

I believe that we are born differently for a reason, and that we have separate and divine roles.  Without each of us having our individual and divine roles we would be at a loss.  These individual roles that we are born with are there for a reason.  When we join in marriage between a man and a woman we bring our strengths together.  If we really thing about it most of our strengths over power and help with our spouses weaknesses.  For example most women are very big worriers and most men are very relaxed about things together we teach each other how to meet in the middle of the two.  Together we create a way of becoming complete and closer to perfect.